12.21.2010

O Christmas Tree..


Trimming the tree is a family event in our home.  We put on the Christmas music and enjoy unwrapping each ornament, remembering where and when we got it, whether it was a gift or a craft made by one of the kids in preschool.  We have the usual mish-mash of ornaments that we've acquired over the years.  There are the special ones, and plenty of the basic shiny balls to help the tree look full.  I keep thinking someday we'll have enough cute ones that we won't need those cheesy ones anymore, but the kids think they're pretty and they'll put them front and center unless we suggest putting them more towards the back.  Every year, we get a new ornament, hopefully one that symbolizes what the past year has been about.  Last year, we got the beagle ornament to mark our first year with Sundae, our new puppy.  Maybe this year I'll find the perfect little camera ornament :)  


This is the first year we let the kids decorate the tree all by themselves.  We gathered around and watched Claire and Sean put them wherever they wanted.  I kept thinking that I'd probably move things around later that evening, fix it up so it looked just right.  But I decided about halfway through that I would just leave it.  For someone like me, who tends to stress out about the little things and want things just so, I realized that I could let this go.... I should let this go.  There may be big ornaments at the top and small ones at the bottom; the cheap old grocery store balls may be holding the prime spot where one of the cute special ones should go.  My family was together, and my children had a great time. Who am I to say it's not good enough?  So, I haven't touched a thing, even though there are some empty spots, and areas where three ornaments are fighting for one branch.  Our tree looks nothing like the shimmering specimens in the Pottery Barn catalog.  The star is crooked and there is no identifiable color scheme.  It is far from perfect.  But my family had a wonderful evening together... The smiles on my kids' faces and the cuddly hugs of excitement are all the perfection I need.

3 comments:

  1. What a lovely post and oh so true!

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  2. I applaud your "letting go". Well done and well written by the way. Very nice way to tell everyone about the experience. The important thing is you had it. Now I understand this whole blog thing. Good job Hon!
    Dad

    ps What is this profile thing? I don't know what to choose, so this may not work. Oh well.

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